Communicating about sex in a relationship is not a simple thing to do. You would think that something that brings so much pleasure shouldn’t cause such tension.
The attitude of your spouse may interfere with your vibrant sex life and it takes a great deal of effort, time, and attention, Also, having little ones and the home to tend to, may get in the way of having time.
The exhaustion from the day-to-day chores may make you tired and not feel like being groped and loved. You may not even feel sexy or have the energy to get turned on and it will be a struggle to admit to yourself that you want sex, Which is more common among couples than you think.
Can we take a walk back memory lane? The time you and your spouse had waited to have sex until the day you were married, All your dreams and fantasies of how you will tend to your love and marriage.
The time that having intimate moments with your partner was something you looked forward to any chance you had. The time when being with him sexually gave you a lot of pleasure and joy, But, you have lost sight of things you promised yourself and your marriage due to busy times.
If you want a fantastic relationship with your partner, you need some mindset shift, from thinking like “doesn’t he know I have the kids to look after” to thinking like “I want to enjoy my marriage and intimacy”
Mindset shift or transformation is necessary if your attitude towards sex is not producing the results you are expecting in your marriage. When you change your mindset about spending time with your husband intimately, it will bring you closer together. You will have the energy to pursue sex in a way you have never done.
If you are saying “No” more than you are saying “Yes” you should consider changing your mindset. Being with your spouse sexually is a bonding experience that unites you. Sex is one area of your life that you shouldn’t allow to suffer.
When you let your sex life suffer, it causes the rest of your relationship to go downhill. Every time you orgasm with your spouse, you are releasing a bonding hormone in the brain. It’s so important that you spend time having sex. It’s great for you. It’s great for them. And most importantly, it’s great for your marriage!
Promise yourself to want to love it.
Love Always 
Kimsheedah
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