Some wounds don’t just hurt, they linger….not because you want to hold onto the pain, but because you’re waiting for an apology that may never come, for someone to acknowledge the hurt they caused ot closure that keeps slipping through your fingers.
It’s exhausting carrying the weight of what someone else did, replaying moments in your head, hoping that one day they’ll realize what they put you through. Maybe they will or they won’t.
But your healing does not depend on them, it depends on Allah, He is enough, not their regret, not their apology, not their validation.
So, what if they never say sorry or never admit they were wrong, awọn ẹni eleni have moved on like nothing happened while you’re left holding the pieces of a pain you didn’t ask for?
You still have a choice. You can keep waiting or hoping and be carrying the hurt in your chest. Or, you let Allah take it and no, not the pampe Ọlọhun kinda own, just surrender the pain, let go of the expectations, and allow Him to heal you in ways no human ever could.
This isn’t about pretending the hurt never happened. It did. And it mattered. But waiting for an apology is like standing in the rain, hoping the storm will ask for forgiveness before it clears. You deserve peace, whether they acknowledge what they did or not.
Just close the chapter, not because they deserve your forgiveness, but because you deserve to move forward. Release the pain, not because they made it right, but because Allah will, again, don’t say you want to be avenged on the Day of judgement….
And when you walk away from what they refuse to acknowledge, you’ll find something beautiful waiting for you, the peace that comes from trusting that Allah saw everything, and He is the Best of Healers, the Best of Judges, the One who will never let you carry what was never yours to hold.
Love Always
Your Tranquility Partner ❣️
© Rawsheedah Akorede Saheed