There are days when marriage feels heavy, the love you once dreamed of doesn’t look the way you imagined, the excitement has faded, and you’re left with the weight of responsibilities, misunderstandings, and the quiet ache of wondering if this is how it’s always going to be.
Maybe you’ve been trying; you’ve prayed, you’ve compromised, you’ve given your best, but it still feels like something is missing. You’re probably looking at your husband, your home, the life you built, and deep down, you’re asking yourself;
“Did I make a mistake?”
“Did I choose wrong?”
“Is this really how my story is meant to unfold?”
But your marriage is not a mistake. The challenges you’re facing are not a sign that you are failing. Every love story has its tests. Every home has its struggles. And what you’re going through right now does not mean that happiness is out of reach.
Marriage isn’t meant to be effortless. It’s meant to refine you, teach you patience, push you to grow in ways you never expected. It’s not about having a perfect relationship, it’s about learning how to love, even when it’s hard.
Allah does not make mistakes in the people He places in our lives, your husband, marriage, your current season are all part of your story. And no, it may not look like the picture you once imagined, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth fighting for.
If something feels broken, seek healing. If love feels distant, take the first step to bring it closer. If resentment is creeping in, ask Allah to soften both your hearts.
This chapter is not the end. Your marriage is still being written. And if you trust the One who brought you together, He can also bring back the love, the understanding, the peace you’re searching for.
Love Always
Your Tranquility Partner ❣️
©Rawsheedah Akorede Saheed