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What Value are you bringing to the table?
Hold that thought…Before you think money is the only value a wife needs to contribute to the family, you need to check yourself and think again.
Haven’t we seen rich wives that turned out to be terrible partners or mothers?

Dear women, search within you, ask yourself,
“Am I bringing value to the table? “
Either in your home or amongst your friends, are you the type that can be forgotten within a twinkle of an eye because of the little you impact on people?
Honor is a value, How honourable are you? how do you keep secrets kept with you? how do you preserve the integrity of the folks around you, be it your husband or your friends or families? Are you the type that is quick to divulge the secrets of your household or others? Are you the type that runs to your family at every opportunity to paint your husband black?
Self worth/Self esteem, knowing your worth would make you deal with others in fairness and humility not with pride, knowing that as a girl child , it is the job of your parents to care for you and when you are married it would be transferred to your husband. Self worth is knowing that when you ask your husband, it doesn’t make you a liability it only means you understand your right within the confines of your religion. Self worth is knowing you are investing other things in your marriage.

Adding value is making sure your husband is dutiful to his parents even when he forgets or busy with life hustles, adding value is making sure mama and papa get something when he has, even if it’s little or when he’s struggling, without making him feel all his salaries should be spent on you.

Adding value is being a shoulder to lean on when life seems to be caving in on him.

Adding value is being able to manage with him when things change from surplus to little and he is striving to make things better.

Value isn’t always about money.

To heal, you need to heal from within, be at peace with yourself and people around you. Be the people’s Peace..

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